Wearing glasses can be hard for children to
accept. They may worry that the other kids will tease them.
They may feel different. Some children don't like wearing
glasses and they 'forget' to put them on or 'forget' to take
them to school. They think that they won't be able to play
sports or that they'll look ugly. Glasses may feel
uncomfortable or heavy at first. There are several things
you can do to help get young children to wear their glasses.
Let children help
pick out frames that they like.
Tell them that they look great when they
wear their glasses. Many children are concerned that they
look weird, or that everyone is looking at them when they
first get glasses.
Keep safety in mind.
Children's lenses should be made of
polycarbonate. It is the safest material and is lighter
weight than other lenses. If your child plays sports, sports
goggles help protect against eye injury.
Make wearing glasses
enjoyable.
Start your child off by having her wear the
glasses for short periods of time. It also helps to link
wearing glasses to something the child enjoys, such as
watching a favorite video.
Be positive.
Children, like adults, thrive on affection.
The attitude of parents and grandparents can influence a
child more than most people think. Make glasses seem "cool"
for your child. Point out sports figures, celebrities, or
family members who wear glasses. For very young children,
"being just like Daddy" may be what counts.
Don't nag.
If the child takes her glasses off, put them
back on in a firm but loving manner. Compliment your child
for remembering to wear his glasses. Nagging or trying to
reason with your child will not improve glasses wearing.
Make it routine.
Make the glasses a part of the child's daily
routine. Put them on in the morning as the child is getting
dressed and take them off before naps and bedtime. Let
teachers know when the child should wear glasses.
Keep discipline calm
and matter-of-fact.
Glasses are not some awful torture. They
help your child see. Sometimes you just need to insist that
your child wear the glasses. Use time-out as a form of
discipline if your child will not wear his glasses.
Keep follow-up
appointments.
Your child's health care provider can help
you convince your child to wear glasses. Your provider can
also check the fit to make sure that the glasses are not too
tight and uncomfortable or so loose that they slip and
slide.