Home video games are very popular and have a significant
influence on our children. Over 85% of students say they play
video games regularly. Over 30% of American homes have a
video game system hooked up to the television. Millions more
own portable game systems. Over 20% of homes have broadband
access to video games. While these games are still heavily
played by males, the number of female players is rapidly
growing. Video games have a positive and a negative side.
With proper supervision, they can be a fun and educational
form of play.
What is good about video games?
Compared to watching television, video games are a better
form of entertainment because they are interactive. Your
child's mind has to be turned on and working. The following
are some possible benefits of playing video games.
They promote attention to details (such as clues),
memorizing, sequencing, and using strategies.
They promote eye-hand (visual motor) coordination.
They improve visual perception (spatial awareness).
They allow use of imagination.
They provide entertainment children and adults can share.
What is bad about video games?
The drawbacks of playing video games are similar to those of
watching TV:
If allowed to rule your child's free time and study
time, video games can decrease development of skills in
sports, music, and art. Performance in school can be
affected if reading and homework are not done.
If your child plays alone, it can decrease important
social time with family and friends. A child's
interactions with friends may become limited to pumping
them for information about hidden passageways and secret
doors. Encourage your child to play video games with
others.
Violent games can teach acceptance of violent behavior in
real life.
You need to be concerned if your child:
How can I help set limits on video games?
Don't expect your child to set his own limits on the amount of
time he spends playing video games. You are responsible for
your child's well-being and must set limits for him. If the
rules are broken, deny your child access to the game for a day
or more. Insist that homework and chores be completed before
your child can play video games. Game time can even be used
as an incentive for finishing these tasks properly.
Limit video game time.
Two hours a day or less is a reasonable limit. Or allow
an hour of play on school nights and 2 or 3 hours a day
on weekends. Some parents allow the video games only on
weekends. If your child is doing poorly in school,
temporarily eliminate video game time on school nights.
Some parents allow their children to earn video game time
by putting in reading time.
Don't allow your child to postpone bedtime because he wants to finish a video game.
Remember that children who stay up late are usually too
tired the next day to remember what they are taught in
school. Don't allow your child to have a video game set
in his bedroom, because this eliminates your control over
time spent playing. When bedtime is drawing near, give
your child a 10-minute warning.
Encourage your children to settle their own disputes over using the video game.
Try to stay out of disagreements, as long as they remain
verbal. Children can't go through life having a referee
to resolve their differences. If the dispute becomes too
loud, remove the game until your children work out a
solution.
Help your child choose video games that are not excessively violent.
Encourage your child to buy or rent sports, puzzle, maze, or
adventure games. Avoid games that contain lots of murder,
combat, and destruction. Research suggests that video games
encourage more aggressive behavior than violent TV shows
because your child is an active participant not just an
observer. If your child borrows or rents a new game, make
sure it is alright before he uses it. Look at game ratings,
but also preview the game before letting your child play.
Ratings are not a perfect system for screening things you
don't want your child to hear or see.
If you own a computer, take advantage of some of the educational games available.
Educational computer games tap the motivational power of
arcade games and help your child learn. They combine
academics and entertainment, and also teach computer skills.
If you have a choice, buy computer games instead of video
games.
Try to encourage a variety of free time activities.
Video games are not bad for children. They can teach
certain skills and they are more educational than watching
TV. If you try to forbid video games, your child will play
them at an arcade or a friend's home. So teach your child
to spend a reasonable amount of time playing them.
Encourage reading, music, hobbies, sports, and playing with
friends as well.
